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I don't remember when I discovered anal play or what led me to it. I've always enjoyed being on the giving end of anal sex with my girlfriends, though I've only rarely had the pleasure. What I don't recall is when I discovered how much pleasure was to be had from being on the receiving end of butt play.
Before we continue, let's get one thing clear: A guy's enjoying anal penetration does not "make him gay." As has often been pointed out, the claim is absurd on its face. What is the argument? Gay men enjoy anal penetration. Fred enjoys anal penetration, so Fred must be gay! Well, gay men enjoy getting blowjobs, too. Every man I've ever known enjoys getting blowjobs, so every many I've ever known must be gay. Right?
What's really ironic about this sort of concern is that one of the joys of anal penetration, for men, is how it stimulates the prostate. Which, of course, is an organ only men have.* Indeed, the main reason I like anal play so much is the kind of orgasm it gives me. I have always envied women because there are so many ways they can masturbate, and because of the seemingly endless orgasms some of them manage to have. One woman I knew used to cum five or six times nearly every time we had sex, one orgasm right after the next. I'd have sold my soul to be able to do that, but my anatomy always got in the way. Until, that is, I discovered my prostate.
As I'll explain, it took me quite a long time to learn how to have prostate orgasms reliably. It's a tale of extraordinary pleasure and equally extraordinary disappointment. I got there in the end, and, if you have a prostate, then you, in all likelihood, can get there, too. But doing so means learning something new about our bodies that no one, probably, has ever begun to tell us.
Before I start giving advice, though, let me tell you my story.
My earliest anal exploration, in my college years, involved dildos. Dildos are for fucking, and that's what I started out doing. I found out pretty fast that if I penetrated myself at the right angle, the head of the dildo would bump across my prostate as I moved it in and out, which felt fantastic. At first, I found it difficult to get the angle just right. If it was too steep, it would hit too hard, which could be painful. If it was too shallow, it would miss my prostate altogether. But when it was just right, it would cause intense sensations deep inside my body and make precum flow like a river. Very quickly, the sensations would build towards that pre-orgasmic state, and I would find myself lingering there for a long time. It felt like, if only I could just keep at it long enough, or hit just the right spot, I'd cum. But I would always tire before I got to that point, or just get too horny to keep at it, so I'd stroke myself to an orgasm with the dildo buried inside me. The feeling of my ass grabbing at the dildo while I came was wonderful. But I always wondered what would happen if only I could keep at it longer. I had to cum, eventually, right?
One day, I was incredibly aroused before I even got to bed. The inside of my underwear was soaked with precum. I got out my favorite dildo, lubed it up, and slid it into my rectum. I lay on my side and pulled my legs up, which I'd discovered created a good angle for getting at my prostate and helped keep my arm from tiring. The deep, intense sensations started more quickly than usual. I remember looking down and seeing a puddle of precum growing on the sheets. I fell into a fantasy and was moaning loudly when suddenly, to my great surprise, the sensations started to rise beyond what they'd previously been like. And then it happened: the familiar feeling of orgasm welled up slowly within my body, and the contractions began, starting deep inside me and spreading outward. I shuddered uncontrollably as my whole body was overtaken by pure pleasure. It went on for a very long time, longer than any orgasm I'd ever had. When I finally came down, I noticed first that there was no cum, just an even larger puddle of precum, and, second, that I was still hard. And I noticed, too, with great excitement, that I was experiencing no post-orgasmic lack of interest.
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That argument is so terrible that it obviously can't be what really drives men (and it's almost always men) to fear that having certain sorts of sex might suddenly cause them to fall in love with a man. The real argument is quite different. It's that a guy's enjoying anal penetration makes him feminine, and being feminine makes him effeminate, and that makes him gay. The steps of this argument are all pretty questionable, too, but it at least makes some kind of sense. But to think that certain sorts of sex acts are exclusively "feminine" or "masculine" is sexist on its face.
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And even if it is "feminine" for a man to enjoy anal penetration, why is that supposed to be bad? (And what's so wrong about being gay?) Could it be because what's feminine is inferior and men should not stoop to such things? That kind of reasoning only makes sense to people who are sexist and homophobic.
My First Prostate Orgasm
I basked in the glow of that amazing orgasm for a while, and then I went right back at it. I did it slowly at first, but harder and faster as I felt the same feelings build again. It didn't take as long the second time for the waves to start crashing over my body, throwing me mercilessly against a rocky shore of overwhelming joy. That second orgasm was the most intense I'd ever had. I remember thinking, at one point, that I had no idea how long it was going to last. It only stopped when I stopped stimulating myself, not because I wanted it to stop, but because I just couldn't cum so hard and keep moving my arm at the same time. And again, there was no cum, no loss of erection, no satiation. I came twice more that way, before deciding it was time to ejaculate, which I did, by stroking myself in the usual way.
So that was it: My first multiple orgasm, and I'd managed five in just one session. It turned out women weren't the only ones who could cum over and over.
My Quest for Reliable Prostate Orgasms
I was sure I had found nirvana, and I wasted no time trying to have more multiple orgasms as soon as I had some more privacy. To my great disappointment, however, it wasn't at all like riding a bike. I thought I'd learned the secret and would be able to repeat the experience any time I wanted. But I was unable to have even one of those special orgasms again for quite a while. If I could have one, I found, then I could have almost as many as I wanted. But getting that first one was difficult. I tried different angles and different positions. I tried getting myself really aroused before starting. But nothing seemed to work reliably. It was random, and it was frustrating.
The obvious thing to try was a vibrator. I'd toyed around with those when I was younger. I figured that getting some of those vibrations to my prostate would feel good. So I ordered up a few different styles.
All of them turned out to be useful. The soft, phallic vibrators I ended up using in much the same way I had been using a dildo before. Adding the vibration definitely felt good, especially if I turned the vibrator on only after the intense feelings had started. There were times that this combination got me multiple orgasms, but it ended up not being any more reliable a method than the dildo, really.
The harder models I used in a different way. Instead of moving them in and out, I'd just put them inside myself and set the tip of the vibrator on or alongside my prostate. That didn't work so well with the softer vibrators. Since they were soft, and had the vibrating bit in the base, there wasn't much vibration at the tip. But the first time I used one of the hard ones, I remember being shocked by the intensity of the sensation and thinking, "Oh yeah, this is going to be good." And it was. I pressed it hard against my prostate, occasionally moving it very slightly in and out, or side to side. I'd had multiple orgasms on several occasions by then and could tell when things were going in the right direction. But I wasn't prepared for what happened next. Women often speak of finding just the right spot, holding the vibe right there, and erupting. That's exactly how it happened for me.
I was moving the vibe around and then suddenly, there it was: the perfect spot. The sensations immediately ramped up. My hips rose up off the bed, as if searching for something. The tension was unbearable, and I thought I was going to pass out. And then, with body-wrenching contractions starting deep within me and convulsing my entire being with their power, wave after wave of the most amazing pleasure I'd ever experienced carried me along in orgasmic bliss. Even more amazingly, since I was using the vibrator, I didn't have to move my arm, so I didn't need to stop to keep my arm from falling off, and I was only halfway down from the first orgasm before I was on my way back up the slope to another one. Less than a minute had passed, and I was cumming a second time, with bolts of pleasure shooting out from some place deep within me, taking hold of my body, and shaking me to my core. That one wasn't as intense as the first one, but it was pretty damn good.
I don't remember how many times I came that day, but it was a lot. Seven or eight, before I'd had enough. I was drained but very, very satisfied.
Once again, I thought I'd discovered the secret, and once again I was disappointed. The hard vibrator, for sure, was able to get me off a bit more reliably than the dildos. G-spot vibrators, which I tried next, were a bit better. But none of them were really predictable.
Fate was on my side, though. Several months later, I ordered a couple more toys, and my order arrived with a free waterproof vibrator.** I didn't care that it was waterproof. What was cool about it was that it had the vibrating mechanism at the tip instead of at the base, and that meant that the vibrations at the tip were much stronger than with any of my other toys. That, I figured, had to be a good thing, and I quickly set to finding out.
That vibrator turned out to be the best one I'd had to that point, and my first experience with it was beyond memorable. I came over and over and over, masturbating for nearly two hours, though I did pause at one point to give myself a real good pounding with one of my dildos. I'd say I lost count of how many orgasms I had that day, but I was so incredibly turned-on that I was never even able to start counting.
It had taken me about five years to find the right toy, and to learn enough about my body, but at that point, finally, I was able to have multiple orgasms almost whenever I wanted to. Not long afterwards, I purchased the original Aneros massager, and then I was really on my way. Now, I have a large collection of prostate toys, and I regularly have fifteen, twenty, or more orgasms in a session. I'll talk more about the various techniques I've learned over the years in the third article in this series.
In the next one, I'll answer a simpler question: What is a prostate orgasm anyway?
* When I speak of "men" and "women" in this article, I mean anatomical males and females. This use of the terms is not meant to offend men and women whose bodies do not match the usual gender expectations.
** In retrospect, using this toy anally may not have been the best idea. The vibrator in question does not have a flared base, which means it would be possible to lose it inside oneself---not something one wants to have to explain to the doctor at the emergency room. In general, only toys that have a base large enough to prevent the whole toy from entering the rectum should be used anally.
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Pegging is a female-to-male sex act in which a woman in the active role enters a man's anus with a strap-on dildo, where the woman takes on the traditional male role of the penetrator. For the man, arousal can come from stimulation of the anus, the rectum, and the adjoining organs, but the pot of gold at the end of this rainbow is the prostate.
Today this is why you're hearing so much about couples seeking information about anal play and pegging in particular. Many heterosexual households are getting into pegging.
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Let me share a true story with you, in fact I'll let you read the entire blog post from Women-Health.com
Hi everyone, I wanted to share my experience. My boyfriend and I recently had anal sex which he did not have my consent and did it when we were doggy style and it was very painful and I told him to stop a couple of times and he didn't. That same day I went to my local sex shop and bought a strap on. Two nights later I told him I had a suprise for him and tied him to the bed. I used my strap on, on him with no lub like he did to me and made it very painful. He immediatly understood what I went through and said sorry and I made him understand that I wear the pants and he needs to be more respectful. The next night I showed him what he should have done and used alot of lube and worked my way in very slow and was very sweet to him. I got amazing results and he now understands were I'm coming from . I now get the respect and have the upper hand over him which I really enjoy. I just thought I would share my experience and how it worked for me. I know i'm different and I feel kinda bad but I felt there was a need for me to do this.
Thanks everyone I just wanted to share my experience.
First, the guy got exactly what he deserved, but the point is this. Pegging takes preparation, you can't run out or buy a strap-on online and surprise your husband or boyfrined one night and state I've got a surprise for you and then strap-on your harness and dildo.
Ladies you have to start with anal play before you can ram that dildo home in your man's backside.
Introduce Your Man To Aneros Before You Introduce Him To Your Strap-on . . .
Ladies, bring the toys into the relationship first, and bring the anal play into the relationship first.
Have you ever tried rimming him? Even "accidentally" while performing oral on him? You two should spend some time exploring how much fun non-penetrative anal stimulation can be, it will be easier to move on to anal penetration. Bottom line? Enjoy all of the play and seduction on the way to pegging.
To clarify the oral exploration... When you've got your tongue inside his anua, begin stroking his anus very lightly with the flat of your thumb. Don't insert anything at all!! NONONO!!! Just get that area used to being touched. The idea is that if you've got your mouth on his as, the external anal stimulation is going to be contributing to the overall goodness and not creating an entirely unique sensation on its own.
After a while this oral stimulation should make him feel really good, it is now time to insert a well-lubricated a finger.
Making your man feel comfortable about anal play is very important before you spring the I want to use my strap-on. Ease into pegging by introducing him to the Aneros Stimulators for men.
The Aneros Stimulator is one of a kind!! It is medically researched, designed and patented. Specifically, Aneros is designed in accordance with modern scientific knowledge of anatomy combined with ancient Oriental awareness of erogenous zones and pleasure centers. The Aneros Stimulator pleases all of your neglected erogenous zones at once. Once the Aneros is inserted, it naturally seeks out the prostate gland (the Male G-Spot) while the perineum abutment gently massages the acupressure spot related to the pudendal nerves. This plexus of nerves is largely responsible for distributing sensations of pleasure throughout the uro-genital area.
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Buy him his first Aneros, but don't tell him about it. Ok, you pick the place and time but you're going to set the mood by giving him a massage from head to toe.
Now ladies, after he is good and relaxed from your erotic massage, it is time to concentrate on the butt. Now, don't forget to have your aneros & lube near by but out of site. After playing with his ass (here is a good time to use your lotion generously !) You are now ready to place the base of your thumb on his ass hole and gently & tenderly massage the butthole. Now you're in control and you know when it's time to turn him over. Now is the time to use your oral skills. With him on his back now crawl beteen his legs. Position yourself so you now have one hand around his cock and the other hand with the thumb pressed against the butthole. Now it's time for you to blow his mind. Tell him to close his eyes. Grab your aneros and lube, place it next to you and now begin to give him oral sex like he never had it before and when you feel the time is right place a well-lubed finger in his ashole, slowly and gently. You should be in complete control of your man and he is game for anything. Now is the time to introduce him to Aneros. Keep in mind that Aneros is a hand free sex toy. While giving him oral sex insert Aneros and simply let go. You want to toally concentrate on giving your man head. Your man is in position for the most intense orgasm he has ever had. Oral & anal will blow his mind. Repeat this procedures over and over for a 4 to 6 weeks period, you be the judge. In fact if you are taking care of business in the bedroom in introcing your man to aneros you should go ahead and start shooping for your first strap-on. Remember, I said - b;ow his mind and his ass will follow.
Today many heterosexual couples (straight) are practicing pegging becasue of the amount of information avialable on the Internet. Many young couples are open to pegging and anal play because of the many benefits to health and great sex ! Anal play and pegging is no longer a taboo ! The facts are in good prostate health is a plus for men.
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I'm asked all the time which Aneros would I reccommend. And I always give the same answer it is The MGX. It is the model that started the Male G-Spot phenomenon. It is easy to use and fulfilling for both the beginner and the expert, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences.
With Aneros products, a man can achieve strong, continuous full-body orgasms previously unattainable through conventional sexual techniques. These orgasms are so earth-shattering that they deserve a special nickname – The Super Orgasm, or as our enthusiasts prefer, The “Super-O.” A Super-O is entirely different from a traditional penile orgasm – it is characterized by pleasure starting from the lower abdomen that awashes the entire body in a state of bliss.
The man does not ejaculate during a Super-O. This means there is no “recharging” or “time out” period needed. Through practice, a man can have these orgasms, one after the other during sessions lasting for an hour or more at a time. Even short sessions can feel long as our customers have reported that during Super-O sessions their “beds shake uncontrollably” and they “lose all track and sense of time.”
Aneros products can also be used during traditional sexual encounters. During oral sex and traditional intercourse, when the man uses our products he will be harder, last longer, and have better control. His prostate will empty more fully during ejaculation, which means a more intense and satisfying orgasm. This increased sexual performance is a great secondary benefit for the partner as well. Aneros is a great way to explore and expand your intimacy with your partner.
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